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5 Unique Features of AuDHD in Women
AuDHD — the co-occurrence of autism and ADHD — is still widely misunderstood, especially in women. Although awareness is growing, many clinicians and communities struggle to understand what it’s like to live at the intersection of two overlapping but distinct neurotypes. For AuDHD women, this combination creates a set of experiences that don’t fully align with autism or ADHD alone. Here are five features that are particularly common in AuDHD women. 1. Masking Feels Like an I

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jan 83 min read


How to Support a Partner with ADHD, Autism, or Other Neurodivergence—Without Losing Yourself
Loving someone who is neurodivergent—whether they have ADHD, autism, or another form of cognitive difference—can be deeply rewarding. It...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Aug 20, 20252 min read


July Newsletter: Neurodivergent Love Languages Connection Tools for ADHD-Autism Relationships
Why This Matters Now July brings sunshine, vacations, and... sensory overload. From crowded family gatherings to heat-induced...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jul 7, 20252 min read


When One Partner is Diagnosed Later in Life: Navigating Change Together
Imagine being with someone for years—sharing a home, a life, dreams, and routines—only to learn something fundamental about them, or...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
May 27, 20253 min read


Consent & Neurodivergence: Navigating Clear Communication in Intimate Moments
In any intimate encounter—whether it's a hug, a kiss, or sex—consent is essential. It's not just about saying "yes" or "no." It's about...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
May 9, 20253 min read


The Challenges of Affection & Touch for Partners with Sensory Sensitivities
In most romantic relationships, affection and physical touch are natural ways to connect, communicate love, and build intimacy. But for...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Apr 21, 20253 min read


How to Create Emotional & Physical Safety in Neurodivergent Partnerships
When building and maintaining a strong partnership, emotional and physical safety is key. In neurodivergent relationships, where one or...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Apr 14, 20252 min read


Understanding the Intersection of Autism & Sexuality in Intimate Relationships
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is often misunderstood, and one of the most overlooked aspects of autism is how it intersects with...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Apr 8, 20253 min read


Autism Awareness Month: Understanding Neurodiversity in Relationships and Workplaces
April is Autism Awareness Month , a time to highlight the importance of understanding and embracing neurodiversity. Autism, also known as...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Apr 4, 20253 min read


Navigating Social Expectations as a Neurodivergent Couple
Socializing is a fundamental part of human life. It fosters connection, builds relationships, and creates shared experiences. For most...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 31, 20253 min read


Splitting the Mental Load: Managing Household & Life Responsibilities with Different Processing Styles
Life, as we all know, is a complex balancing act. But for those of us with neurodivergent processing styles—whether that be ADHD, autism,...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 27, 20253 min read


How Routines & Predictability Can Strengthen a Neurodivergent Relationship
Relationships, whether romantic, familial, or platonic, are built on trust, understanding, and communication. For neurodivergent...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 21, 20253 min read


The Hidden Struggles of Executive Dysfunction in Neurodivergent Relationships
In today’s world, we’re becoming more aware of neurodivergence and how it impacts individuals in various aspects of their lives. From...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 19, 20253 min read


The Role of Special Interests in Neurodivergent Relationships: Bonding or Barrier
In any relationship, special interests—the deep passions or hobbies that someone dedicates a significant amount of time and energy to—can...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 13, 20253 min read


Misinterpreted Intentions: How Different Processing Styles Lead to Conflict in Neurodivergent Individuals
In a world that values conformity, neurodivergent individuals often face conflict due to differences in how they process and interact...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 6, 20253 min read


Emotional Regulation in Neurodivergent Relationships: When One or Both Partners Struggle
Relationships can be complex, and neurodivergence adds unique emotional regulation challenges. Understanding each other's experiences is...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Feb 25, 20252 min read


When Words Fail: Alternative Ways to Express Love in Neurodivergent Relationships
Love is a universal emotion that transcends cultures and languages, often expressed through words like "I love you." However, for...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Feb 14, 20252 min read


Bridging the Communication Gap: How Neurodivergent and Neurotypical Partners Can Connect
Effective communication is essential in any relationship, but for neurodivergent (ND) and neurotypical (NT) partners, it can come with...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Feb 7, 20253 min read


Fostering Inclusivity: Creating a Safe Environment for Neurodivergent Employees
In today's diverse and dynamic workplace, fostering inclusivity is not just a moral imperative, but also a strategic advantage....

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jan 23, 20253 min read


Elevating Performance: The Essential Role of Self-Care for Neurodivergent Executives
In today's fast-paced and demanding business world, executives often find themselves juggling multiple responsibilities, navigating...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jan 21, 20253 min read
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