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How to Support a Partner with ADHD, Autism, or Other Neurodivergence—Without Losing Yourself
Loving someone who is neurodivergent—whether they have ADHD, autism, or another form of cognitive difference—can be deeply rewarding. It...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Aug 202 min read
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July Newsletter: Neurodivergent Love Languages Connection Tools for ADHD-Autism Relationships
Why This Matters Now July brings sunshine, vacations, and... sensory overload. From crowded family gatherings to heat-induced...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jul 72 min read
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When One Partner is Diagnosed Later in Life: Navigating Change Together
Imagine being with someone for years—sharing a home, a life, dreams, and routines—only to learn something fundamental about them, or...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
May 273 min read
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Consent & Neurodivergence: Navigating Clear Communication in Intimate Moments
In any intimate encounter—whether it's a hug, a kiss, or sex—consent is essential. It's not just about saying "yes" or "no." It's about...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
May 93 min read
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The Challenges of Affection & Touch for Partners with Sensory Sensitivities
In most romantic relationships, affection and physical touch are natural ways to connect, communicate love, and build intimacy. But for...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Apr 213 min read
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How to Create Emotional & Physical Safety in Neurodivergent Partnerships
When building and maintaining a strong partnership, emotional and physical safety is key. In neurodivergent relationships, where one or...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Apr 142 min read
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Understanding the Intersection of Autism & Sexuality in Intimate Relationships
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is often misunderstood, and one of the most overlooked aspects of autism is how it intersects with...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Apr 83 min read
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Autism Awareness Month: Understanding Neurodiversity in Relationships and Workplaces
April is Autism Awareness Month , a time to highlight the importance of understanding and embracing neurodiversity. Autism, also known as...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Apr 43 min read
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Navigating Social Expectations as a Neurodivergent Couple
Socializing is a fundamental part of human life. It fosters connection, builds relationships, and creates shared experiences. For most...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 313 min read
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Splitting the Mental Load: Managing Household & Life Responsibilities with Different Processing Styles
Life, as we all know, is a complex balancing act. But for those of us with neurodivergent processing styles—whether that be ADHD, autism,...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 273 min read
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How Routines & Predictability Can Strengthen a Neurodivergent Relationship
Relationships, whether romantic, familial, or platonic, are built on trust, understanding, and communication. For neurodivergent...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 213 min read
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The Hidden Struggles of Executive Dysfunction in Neurodivergent Relationships
In today’s world, we’re becoming more aware of neurodivergence and how it impacts individuals in various aspects of their lives. From...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 193 min read
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The Role of Special Interests in Neurodivergent Relationships: Bonding or Barrier
In any relationship, special interests—the deep passions or hobbies that someone dedicates a significant amount of time and energy to—can...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 133 min read
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Misinterpreted Intentions: How Different Processing Styles Lead to Conflict in Neurodivergent Individuals
In a world that values conformity, neurodivergent individuals often face conflict due to differences in how they process and interact...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 63 min read
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Emotional Regulation in Neurodivergent Relationships: When One or Both Partners Struggle
Relationships can be complex, and neurodivergence adds unique emotional regulation challenges. Understanding each other's experiences is...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Feb 252 min read
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When Words Fail: Alternative Ways to Express Love in Neurodivergent Relationships
Love is a universal emotion that transcends cultures and languages, often expressed through words like "I love you." However, for...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Feb 142 min read
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Bridging the Communication Gap: How Neurodivergent and Neurotypical Partners Can Connect
Effective communication is essential in any relationship, but for neurodivergent (ND) and neurotypical (NT) partners, it can come with...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Feb 73 min read
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Fostering Inclusivity: Creating a Safe Environment for Neurodivergent Employees
In today's diverse and dynamic workplace, fostering inclusivity is not just a moral imperative, but also a strategic advantage....

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jan 233 min read
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Elevating Performance: The Essential Role of Self-Care for Neurodivergent Executives
In today's fast-paced and demanding business world, executives often find themselves juggling multiple responsibilities, navigating...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jan 213 min read
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Identifying Overwhelm in Neurodivergent Individuals: A Guide to Recognizing the Signs
For many neurodivergent individuals—those with conditions such as ADHD, autism, sensory processing disorder, or others—overwhelm can be a...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jan 154 min read
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