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Newsletter: September Is for Small Wins
Why a few tiny habits can be more powerful than a perfect 20-item routine September often brings the feeling that it’s time to “get back on track”—new routines, goals, healthier habits, better organization, and more. For people with ADHD or high sensitivity, this can quickly become an overwhelming list of things to change. When the routine becomes difficult to maintain, it’s easy to blame yourself. But what if the problem isn’t you? What if the routine is simply asking too mu

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Sep 82 min read


The Exhaustion of Pretending You’re “On Top of It”
For many adults with ADHD, looking like you have everything under control can be exhausting. You may seem organized and responsible while relying on reminders, alarms, lists, and last-minute bursts of energy to keep up. ADHD can also make planning, organizing, starting tasks, managing time, and remembering things more difficult. You might handle complex work well but struggle with simple tasks. It’s not laziness or a lack of care. Everyday responsibilities may require more ef

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Aug 203 min read


High Achiever, Secret Shame: ADHD in Successful Adults
Success is often seen as proof that someone has everything under control. Yet many high-achieving adults quietly struggle with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), masking their challenges behind impressive accomplishments. While they may excel at work or in school, they often battle procrastination, overwhelm, and self-doubt in private. The Hidden Face of Adult ADHD ADHD affects executive functioning—the brain's ability to plan, organize, manage time, regulate em

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Aug 113 min read


🧠 Reset Before the Rush: Creating ADHD-Friendly Routines for the Holidays
How to stay grounded, calm, and structured when everything gets a little unpredictable The holidays are filled with joy, connection, and… total routine chaos. For people with ADHD, the shift from everyday structure to holiday schedules can feel like jumping from a neatly labeled planner into a glitter tornado. More noise, more crowds, more expectations, more sensory overwhelm—and fewer predictable routines. Before things ramp up, a small “reset” can make the entire season fee

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Nov 19, 20252 min read


Taming the Doomscroll: Mindful Ways to Navigate Social Feeds
You open your phone for “just a minute”—then find yourself lost in bad news and emotional content. You feel heavy, overwhelmed. That’s doomscrolling . Staying informed matters, but our digital habits are quietly draining our mental health. It’s time to scroll more mindfully—and protect our peace in the process. Why Social Feeds Trigger Anxiety and Burnout Social media is designed to keep you engaged—not calm. Algorithms prioritize content that grabs your attention, often by s

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Oct 21, 20252 min read


From Overwhelm to Organization: ADHD-Friendly Ways to Start the Fall Strong 🍂
Ah, October. The air gets crisp, the leaves change, and suddenly… everything feels like a lot . For folks with ADHD, fall can feel like a full-body sensory overload. Between the back-to-school vibes, the looming holiday season, and the shorter days, October often brings a spike in stress, disorganization, and mental fatigue. But it doesn’t have to. With the right ADHD-friendly systems and mindset shifts, you can go from overwhelmed to organized—and actually enjoy the season.

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Oct 15, 20253 min read


October Newsletter: HARVEST SEASON FOR SELF-CARE
Letting Go, Slowing Down & Making Space to Breathe Hello, This is the time of year when the world softens, and the air takes on a crisp...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Oct 3, 20252 min read


Resetting Routines: ADHD-Friendly Strategies for Fall
As the leaves start to change and summer winds down, September brings a natural “reset” moment. Whether you're heading back to school,...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Sep 10, 20252 min read
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[September Newsletter] Back to Basics: Polyvagal and Breathwork Tools for ADHD Brains
Bridging Neuroscience, Breath, and Daily Regulation Welcome to September! The transition from summer to fall often brings a mix of...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Sep 1, 20253 min read


The Role of Therapy & Coaching in Strengthening Neurodivergent Relationships
Relationships are complex, dynamic, and deeply personal. When one or both partners are neurodivergent—whether autistic, ADHD, dyslexic,...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Aug 26, 20252 min read


August Wellness Newsletter: “Creating a Good Sleep Routine for Restful Sleep”
Hello and Happy August! As summer winds down and routines shift again—whether it's back to school, back to work, or back to earlier...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Aug 7, 20253 min read


🌸 Spotlight on Women with ADHD: Hormones, Cycles, and Summer Self-Care
ADHD in women is often overlooked, underdiagnosed, or misunderstood, especially when it comes to how hormones and monthly cycles...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jul 25, 20252 min read


July Newsletter: Neurodivergent Love Languages Connection Tools for ADHD-Autism Relationships
Why This Matters Now July brings sunshine, vacations, and... sensory overload. From crowded family gatherings to heat-induced...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jul 7, 20252 min read


ADHD and Emotional Regulation: Managing Mood Swings in the Heat of Summer
Summer brings longer days, vacations, and sunshine, but for people with ADHD, it can also amplify emotional dysregulation. Between the...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jun 26, 20252 min read


ADHD and Sleep: Resetting Your “Internal Clock”
As the days grow longer and sunlight extends into the evening, many people begin to feel the seasonal shift in energy and sleep patterns....

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jun 11, 20253 min read
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[June Newsletter] Summer and Structure: ADHD Tips for Staying on Track During Breaks
Hello With summer approaching, the usual routines of school and work begin to shift — sometimes dramatically. While this can be a...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Jun 5, 20252 min read


How to Advocate for Your Needs in a Neurodivergent Relationship
Navigating any relationship takes communication, patience, and mutual respect—but when neurodivergence is part of the dynamic, learning...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
May 16, 20253 min read
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[MAY NEWSLETTER] Friendship in Bloom: Building Neurodivergent Connections Without Burning Out
Spring is here—soft sunlight, budding trees, and a gentle nudge from the earth that says: start fresh. For many of us, especially those...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
May 1, 20252 min read


The Challenges of Affection & Touch for Partners with Sensory Sensitivities
In most romantic relationships, affection and physical touch are natural ways to connect, communicate love, and build intimacy. But for...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Apr 21, 20253 min read


How Routines & Predictability Can Strengthen a Neurodivergent Relationship
Relationships, whether romantic, familial, or platonic, are built on trust, understanding, and communication. For neurodivergent...

Gretchen Pound, PhD
Mar 21, 20253 min read
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