Normalizing interdependence for neurodivergent individuals Many of us were taught that independence is the ultimate goal of adulthood. “Handle it yourself.” “Don’t be needy.” “Figure it out.” But here’s the truth: no one thrives alone . Humans are wired for connection, co-regulation, and shared effort. For neurodivergent individuals — including those with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, Autism spectrum disorder, Generalized anxiety disorder, and learning differences