For years, ADHD has been framed as a problem of discipline. If you can’t focus, you're not trying hard enough. If you procrastinate, you must be lazy. If you struggle to follow through, you must lack responsibility. But this story is not just inaccurate—it’s harmful. ADHD is not a character flaw. It’s a pattern in how the nervous system regulates attention, motivation, and action. And understanding that changes everything. The Discipline Myth The idea that success is just abo